Lying on the floor, at her parents’ living room she dreamt of her baby. The vocabulary had changed from “our” baby to “her” baby, and the entitlement has restricted itself. She always had thought it was their baby, that they would raise the child together, even when he had told her that he was with her, only for the kid and nothing else. But as of now, she had realised that hope for any commitment from those who do not grasp the concept of commitment had failed her too many times. She was not angry with him anymore for sleeping around, abandoning her and the kid, or even the lies he told, she was merely angry with herself for believing in redemption when he had proved incapable of such.
Her baby looked like his dad, in her dream. He had the same expression and the nose, though his eyes were unlike the dad’s. They were more like hers, and he seemed too bored to do anything. That she thought was expected. He had stopped acting hyper for a while since his dad had left, he kicked once in a while, and mostly moved from one end of her belly to another, like a huge lump who could not be bothered. She could feel him when she took her hand over her belly, in bumps across her skin, and occasionally could feel most probably his heart beat. She did not think her son would keep kicking over 40 times, unless he was fed up of being stuck inside and was trying to kick his mum a good deal to indicate to the stupid woman to let him out. A tantrum at a very young age, to be expected too, given the circumstances.
She was yet to outgrow her tears, but had started planning for her kid alone. She had decided on the little clothes that would fit him, the little things that he would need, a cot to be bought, and other things, though at times when looking at them she could feel tears roll down remembering them going through baby things together. But she did not see the point anymore, she did not see why she should sob thinking of a man who had left, and not bothered. Not bothered to check whether his son was alright, whether his wife was alright, whether the doctors’ appointments were met, and whether she had got her medical tests done. But at times she could not help herself, and was yet to gain the courage to forget it all.
It was like she was back to age of schooling, when her parents called up to check on her, to see if she had had her meals, or whether she was feeling alright, whether she had money, or whether she had work on that particular day. Things he had not done since marriage. He has not remembered that his wife waited for him to come home to have diner, and took his own time in getting home pass midnight, when she had out grown her hunger and gone to lie down, waiting to open the gates for her.
Her mum had made milk rice for her. She had remembered that her daughter never mentioned any cravings nor asked for anything. She just kept puking and working, and in the intervals crying over the failed marriage and a man who had told her that he loved another more than he loved her. She remembered how he had asked him to get her an ice cream one day to be refused because there was traffic at the Nugegoda junction. She had cried her way home, and then decided to never ask for anything. Not for ice cream nor anything else. She did not buy herself any clothes for a while, not till her belly really started showing and she could not fit into her pants, or her dresses. Then too she had waited till she had her money, to go pick two dresses that would help her survive the next two months of her pregnancy. Her dad had wanted to come with her, and wanted to buy her clothes, she was still her daughter, though she carried a kid of a man they did not see much value of, but she had refused, knowing that she had cost him enough and more with a wedding, a failed marriage, a house rented and everything else that was yet to come.
She did not want to think of the past, she wanted to move on, but pieces of her life kept flashing through, when least welcome. She remembered when she thought they were happy, and picked him over everything else, though he was throughout feeding her with lies and screwing the other. She tried not to think of those little moments of happiness that lingered, when the rest was all an illusion. She thought of her son who would now know his father.
People tell her she is strong, and that she is not stupid. Their words make no sense to her, at least not at this stage. Some ask her to rethink, to reconsider. Reconsider what? What was she to do? Was she to track him down in another land, to beg him to come back, and be with her and the baby, when he paid no heed to anything, or the birth of his son, and was adamant he did not want to try to make things work.
People ask her the typical question, what will you tell your son when he asks where his dad is? She has only one answer, and that is, that she would tell him the whole story of his dad and her, and how he left them and went away, and how he and her both meant not much, faced with his concern for his own happiness.
My Domain Whois said:
This is a very touching story…. you are strong lady….Be courageous !!
Dauna Ray said:
I just can’t even think of imagining all the emotions that you are going through. And I know you will have more to face. But even through your horrible situation your courage still shows. Live with the faith that you will some day find your silver lining.