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I trust you! (sure my “foot” I do!)

19 Thursday May 2011

Posted by vositha in Handbook on Human Species, Random Moments of Life

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hypocrisy, lies, linguistics, trust

Well today has all been about trust, lies and hypocrisy. Of late I am evaluating life, lies and lust. Well today the last being missing, I remain focussed on the first two, when what I should have done is focus on law. Yeah, but when did one ever do, what be required of one to do. I be no exception. Letting law rot, I focused on lies.

The first part of the day I tried to figure out whether it was just I, or others who believed that lying does include half truths and those nondisclosures of information that one knows the other party would not be too happy to hear, which brought me to a flashback of a fight I once had with my first boyfriend, and him screaming at me saying “ I don’t get your linguistics or law, you lied to me!” as a response to my “I was not lying to you, I did not even tell you anything on it!”. Well that argument did not end well, I remember it leading to some domestic violence and me deciding that any man to touch me in anger would end up with his limbs being deprived for good. And I think the rest of the male species that followed sensed that sinister quality in me, and decided never to check their abilities of violence on me. (lucky them)

Anyhow, well coming back to the point, I jolly well have moved away from those moments I believed that not telling him something would negate my lying, as today I believe if one does not tell me something, then it amounts to lying.

I had this interesting conversation with someone in the morning, where we were discussing the same topic. I told him, any man can have any amount of freedom he needs, as long as I am not given the presumption that he is not elsewhere doing something completely different as to what I find him doing. Imagine you think your man is at work, just because he gives you the impression that is what he is going to be doing, and then ends up walking into him with some other woman in a restaurant or walking out of a restaurant for that matter.

The conversation prior to that would be like this,

“hello”
“hello”
“What you up to? Want to meet up for coffee?”
“I am going to be busy at work. So much to finish”
“Ah ok. I will not bug you them. Laters!”
“Ok bye”


(a few moments later there he walks off with some other woman!)

Sure they could be friends, and they could be just having a drink, but would you not be feeling awkward? I would. I honestly would be confused whether to talk to him, or walk off. To send a text or to call from another table. Or just simply to ignore the whole presence and merely carry on.

Then again what about those sentences like, “oh I just charged my phone!” when he forgets to call you, or “I did not call you because I did not wake you up”? Are those lies that one should take into consideration or just ignore?

Analyzing linguistics is fun at times. But when you get too good at spotting lies, you are left wondering similarly when you crash into your boyfriend with another woman, whether you confront the person, or to simply ignore. Do you raise that red flag to send him that alert that you DO know that he is twisting his tongue when he is telling those sentences. Or do you simply raise that white flag and remain neutral? And think, yes you have all the symptoms of one who is talking like Pinocchio (though your nose seems to shrink rather than grow) but I do choose to refrain from confronting the obvious, cause we both know that you are the idiot who is lying, when it’s written all over your face!

“In love with a beautiful mind!”

17 Sunday Oct 2010

Posted by vositha in Fiction, Handbook on Human Species, Random Moments of Life, Relationships

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She always wondered what attracted her. Recalling all the men she used to date, the conclusion was evident, not the looks!

Nopes, she never had much patience with good looking men. They always turned out to be the ones to bore her to death. Or rather the boredom used to be initiated with much easiness, when it was a question of a good looking guy. (exclusion clause: not all good looking men are boring, and looks are a question of subjectivity, hence what she deems good looking may not be a universal trait, nor is boredom objective, so all these concepts revolve around her subjective opinion)

Now, she prefers not to be misunderstood. She has nothing against good looking men, they are good to look at, eye candy they be. She, like all the other humans, appreciates good looking beings or things, but the looks fail to sustain her interest. Looks alone, never did the task for her. There needs be something more, something enduring and something capturing interest…

Of late she realises what that be!

“A beautiful mind”!

She did not realise it till he uttered it, while conversing on the phone.

Yes she knows it be somewhat of a cliché but then what can she say? She needs must admit what be the reality.
Good conversation was always an addition, the most important element to be considered. She realises it of late.

The ideal man would make her laugh, not at him, rather with him. He be one able to sustain a conversation and grasp all the vagueness she weaves with every one of her twisted thought. He needs be able to see the twisted-ness and then be able to deal with it, and preferably appreciate it. See the weirdness yet not be appalled by it!

In short she needs a beautiful mind, someone courageous enough to endure the monster in her.

And of course, the one with the words, to put a smile on her face 🙂

Above all a man who be able to match those words with what his acts be!

Redefining “Desperate”!

16 Monday Aug 2010

Posted by vositha in Handbook on Human Species

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Have you noticed that there are a bunch of guys who would be the perfect boyfriend with their woman and go dial another woman’s number at midnight?

Such lame freaks they are!

I just do not get the concept of their desperation!

Why would one end up being engaged to one if they have to look around for other women to vent their frustration??

Why would they want to demean the woman they are with by going begging to get laid with other women?

And then  behave like total jerks when they do not get what they desire?

The world is full of lame idiots of late and this town where I dwell seem to present quite a variety to pick from! Then I guess  it is not something  that is special to this Colombo breed. It seems rather something that is genetic, inherited or learned!

I have noticed the same when in other countries. Those who would find modes of definition to cheat on their girlfriends and brides to be. Sure they always have a one emotive story to move you: “my girlfriend does not get me!”, ” we are so different, she doesn’t care about me!”,” it’s a proposed marriage!” The list is way too long!

The funny thing is that these morons think that FB is their haven of chase. They will pick someone, befriend and then start being a weirdo freak who does not get a NO!

Mode of conduct:
No accepting men who are not known to you

No accepting women you do not know! You never have a clue whether it is a man or a woman!

No picking the phone when such person calls.

Reiteration – NO CALLS FROM FREAKS TO BE ENTERTAINED!

Well conclusion is ever so simple: if one is acting desperate, they are desperate! You definitely do not need to waste your time on them!
Unless of course you entertain stalkers!!

Handbook on Human Species by Vositha Wijenayake

04 Wednesday Aug 2010

Posted by vositha in Handbook on Human Species, Uncategorized

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I have lately come across different form of human species than  I have in my earlier years of existence. And the things they have thus taught  remain invaluable.

Some taught me that indifference to humans be virtue and  the best mode to deal with personal relationships. They also taught me that not bothering about others feelings is the norm and that empathy be  the vice. I refuse to believe so, yet applaud the pride they take in their stupid philosophy.

They also taught me that one should never practice what they preach! I met people over the last weeks upholding the greatest religious values while turning their eyes away on seeing someone lesser privileged. Why preach religion and animal rights when one cannot pay more attention to humans around you? I desperately fail to comprehend.

Then there are others who also taught me that there can be great awkwardness in friendship. Sudden aloofness and reverting to oneself when one has no clue why other would do so! These people succeed in constantly baffling me and broadening my perspectives of philosophy on life and friends. Not that I had such philosophy till recently, but they do motivate me to form one, to prove that these creatures are those who have these psychological characteristics, if any one needs to deal with them, well here are the available instructions and the tools that may come in handy.

Yes the handbook on Human Species – written by Vositha, edited by Vositha, published by Vositha!

Soon available on your closest online bookstore, for home delivery please place your order on vositha.wordpress.com!

Guaranteed to please you 😛

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