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“Space”

19 Thursday Sep 2013

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bored in a relationship, communicating, relationships, space

I needed space and I told him.

“Space as in the relationship or space as in the apartment?”

I wasn’t surprised. It was normal for us to talk in two dialects, though we managed to understand each other in general on things that mattered.

“I mean I need mental space.”

I was not sure what I was trying to express. I had been restless the last few days, and he had been too busy, and the conversations had been too repetitive. Their banality I had begun to hate.

“I am not even sure whether I am in a relationship!”

“Go to sleep!” he says.

I did not.

The Other Side of the Bed

14 Friday Jun 2013

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bed, communicating, love, relationships

Sometimes Aiden reminds me of the man to whom I was once married. Last night being one of those moments. The lack of space between us has made me realize that maybe things work better when he and I end up in two corners of the world, or at two ends of the bed.

Or else, the outcome being both of us seated in bed, starving and him being stressed, trying to sort out whatever issue that is bothering him with regards to grounds for his distress: option a, b, c (options b and c being imaginary of course to supplement that he does has reasonable grounds to feel upset as he is feeling at the point of elaborating his problem.)

I on the other hand, stay in bed ponder what the hell is wrong with me of late, for feeling completely unaffected while he throws his little tantrum.

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